|
It is normal that a teen wants to be hip most of the time. Teenagers, whether boys or girls usually experiment with their looks by trying different fashion trends, especially those fashion styles that are famous at present. As is it normal for teens to feel this way, it is also normal for parents to feel anxious about the changes that are taking place in their children.
A parent wants to be heard in her opinion especially when it comes to the transformation her child is undergoing. On the contrary, a teen wants to be heard too in her ideas. Teens are likely to become sensitive in feelings when people talk about their appearance. Therefore, it is sometimes advisable to let teenagers try the fashion that they like as they will also realize later on what looks bad and what looks good on them.
One of the things that might be at risk when a teen wants to try the latest trend in fashion is the skin. Make it a point that she may try whatever she wants but she must never forget to always look out for her skin as it might be irritated by some factors. An important part of being fashionable is also knowing how to cleanse, moisturize and use sunscreen, especially if the fashion a teen wants is about trying cosmetics. Teenagers should also focus on skin care and never let their young skin become affected with the type of fashion trends they follow.
If what teens like is to sport tattoos and you do not like the idea as a parent, you may express your dislike. But if she insists, you should advice her to get a faux-tattoo. Since her age is so young, she might change her mind about the tattoo later on therefore, it is best to keep an instant and non-permanent tattoo.
One of the famous fashion trends most teens want to try is the look of multiple earrings. Some would like to try simulated navels or nose jewelries. Most parents disagree and argue with this idea. For a solution, parents may suggest that they use accessories that can just be clipped on instead of getting real piercing as they may change their minds about it afterwards.
Teens are normally experiencing an intense period of discovering who they really are, want they really want and what could make them happy. This is the period where in a teen wants to be granted some space for her to figure out the answers to her questions. It is important anyway for parents to keep their perspective. It is fine to let our teens discover the latest in fashion but there just some things that parents can never tolerate and that should be clear to them. Give them freedom but be awre also about the time where there should be no giving in.
| |
|
